Romance In The Work Place “Catch 22” The Good The Bad & the Ugly
The Reality: “ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH YOUR OFFICE FANTASY”
Office romances are the ultimate example of the phrase “catch 22”. Office environments offer the perfect breeding grounds for dating, and lustful sexual relations. How many times have you walked into a workplace and were overcome with a lustful feeling just at the sight of a certain co-worker. 8-10 hours a day, you have an open opportunity to socialize and flirt with the “apple of your eye”. Just like a volcano’s mounting pressure, the day will arrive when it all comes to a head.
Maybe the two of you have been frequently taking lunch together. Then one day, after months of lusting for one another, come out exploding in the parking lot of your favorite lunch hide out. In the front seat of the car, the two of you cross the line, engaging into passionate kisses, groping and moaning followed by plans of after-hours activities.
In some cases, if you are like my characters from Office Fantasies “Cover Blown” Marcus and Sydney—the two of you return back to work, only to escape to the parking deck and jump into the back seat of his car, for the most exciting fulfilling risky sex of your life.
In the words of Rick James “great sex is a hell of a drug”. Just like a drug addict, great sex alters your decision making, and becomes a priority over your professional obligations. Then the next morning comes, when you get dressed with your Office Fantasy in mind, your lover at home comments "Wow you look great” as you walk out of the door. Excited to see your fling like the first day of school, the two of you walk into office with lust and pleasure written all over your faces (the day after glow).
The infamous rumor mill of the office begins churning, speculating about the extent of your relationship. Both of you, of course, deny their assumptions, feeling as if your all have your tracks covered. The two of you continue your heated fling, going further into this never ending rabbit hole.
Inevitably, the day comes when it all “hits the fan”. The heated confrontation the night before spills over into work the next morning. The most uncomfortable of 8 hours of your life, you could have never guessed the amount of tension that would be in the air. One of you walks into the office upset with your lover and it shows in everything that they do. Everyone close to both of you notices the change in routine, neither one of you spoke to each other this morning, nor came over to your office to speak. The very last things on your mind are your work priorities, tortured by the site of having to see your ex-lover day in and day out.
The Dangers: There are different dangerous consequences of having a workplace romance. To expand on this more, we would need to know the different types of at work relationships between two consenting adults. Each one of them will produce different results and, for certain ones, a hostile environment.
Extramarital affairs: In the case of extramarital affairs in the workplace, worries of retaliation and blackmail exist. Pillow talk at your most vulnerable moments now comes back to haunt you since your heated fling has gone cold. In your mind you are wishing that you could go back in time, and omit complaints about your marriage, and personal information that you have shared. What was once private about your personal life is now at the mercy of your scorned co-worker.
The affair could possibly be exposed ruining your reputation at work as a distinguished married man or woman. Then the worst case scenario, someone exposes the extra-marital affair to your spouse. Once a workplace relationship goes terribly bad, there is always someone who gets their feelings hurt.
Supervisor /Subordinate Relations: Relationships between your boss and subordinate could possibly be the most damaging of the different office relationships. How many times have you heard of preferential treatment, between a supervisor and a subordinate? Unwarranted promotions and opportunities made available because of the type of relationship that exist between the two.
These types of relationships are prohibited by most corporations with a zero tolerance policy; often with stipulations that they are obligated to divulge this information to HR. Should something occur to avoid any possible human resource issues that could arise among other co-workers.
Peer relationships: This relationship in an office environment has the least restriction with regard to corporate control, due to the invasion of privacy laws. However, this could have the most potential personal and direct work performance consequences. More often than not, one of the two can’t handle the change in environment. One of the two people ends up asking for a transfer, or leaving the job completely.
Even if you are able to accomplish this the time it takes to finalize transfers or the execution of a two week notice. One of you still wind up miserable, and unproductive in an unhealthy working environment. Worst of all, having to look at their office fantasy everyday as a reminder the loss relationship.
Fling – These types of relationships typically happen at the spur of the moment, acting on now feelings, never considering the repercussions or the people that could be hurt by it. Unlike most office situations, there is no type of friendship built to fall back on. When it comes time to part ways, the mudslinging could get intense. Any relationship built purely from lustful feelings; often erupt into the most problematic of work relationships.
Now that we have that out the way now let’s talk about the BENEFITS of romance in the office.
For the busy work professional often it is hard to get out and meet someone without spending an astronomical amount of personal time to do so. The workplace offers even the most shy of people a chance to slowly get to know someone without the awkward introductions.
In most corporate environments, workers have similar backgrounds and personal interest. This offers the ability to quickly build romantic and steamy relationships, over the course of a 40 hour week.
For the people whom are promiscuous in nature, an office full of attractive working class men and women, in my opinion offer the potential for some of the best sexual encounters. Think of your co-worker that you have been sitting at your desk, day dreaming about. Maybe as he walks by, with his shoulders up right clean shaven, perfectly groomed dressed like he owns the place.
Oh and that curious bulge in his pants, that has peaked your curiosity for months. You slightly begin to touch yourself thinking of all the nasty things you would do to him. Fantasizing about how his bulge would fill up your fish tank.
For him, she walks by wearing her short naughty secretary skirt, bare legs in her favorite black pumps. Your morning wood salutes her at your desk as she passes by. Then the perfect opportunity in the form of an office after work party, presents its self. After a few drinks, you reach under the bar, to get a handful of that bulge that has consumed your mind for months. Not only was it all real, but rock hard and ready for insertion the ultimate surprise. Moments later, the two of you escape without notice headed to his place for an orgasmic, sex filled night, erupting into the “Perfect Chemistry”.
For the married folks, the saying “Have you cake and eat it to” comes to mind. For those whom indulge the rush of having uninhibited taboo sex, but then going home to a loving spouse and family. This could prove to be exhilarating and selfishly satisfying. Maybe that blowjob she has refused for the last few nights, your office fantasy gives you in the car in the most uninhibited fashion. Those sexy outfits the wife no longer wears, your lover wears just for you, and most recent she wears no panties for quickies around the office.
As for her, the semi-hard erection that your spouse loses every time you are ready to orgasm. Marcus, hot young stud at work, delivers a stiff one to you. Reliable as a bottle of stiff whisky, he get the job done, releasing those orgasms that you have been holding onto for months.
Symphony’s 6 ways to manage your office romance:
A) Just walk away never ____ where you eat.
B) Have an understanding of the lustful nature of the relationships. But an understanding should an abrupt halt to the relationship should occur. That the two of you will remain respectful, professional and cordial.
C) Keep your relationship off the clock including lunch and breaks. This only confuses things and brings unwanted attention towards you at work.
D) Never and I mean never discuss the details of your relationship with any co-workers. We are all human and a majority of “secrets’ were never secrets, as you discover when the relationship ends.
E) Keep work related conversation off the clock to a minimum.
Deal with those who have equally as much to lose as you do in a work environment.
In the first episode of Office Fantasies "Cover Blown", the obvious attraction between Marcus and Sydney has become the talk of the office. Every day the two of them flirt and tease each other, until the sexual tension finally explodes into the Perfect Chemistry. Parking decks, office bathrooms and building elevators. This fantasy turned reality contains all the elements that make for a once in a lifetime sexual adventure for two.
Sydney & Marcus’s encounters will leave you breathless, wanting to know increasingly juicy details of their explosive sexual relationship in and outside of the office. Are you sleeping with your office fantasy?
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Excerpt: Cover Blown
Buckle your seats
And strap in
This is going to be
A really WET and
I hope you have
Toy near by
Because trust me
You will need it
Change your batteries
Lock your doors
Slide those panties
To the side
Is going to
Be a while
Your bodies squirming
And dripping wet
Symphony is a closet freak whom lives his fantasies through his many alter ego's in this case the character of Marcus. Shy to the eye with a sexual appetite for two or even three. Symphony is passionate in all that he does, priding himself on serving his woman with the ultimate experience of endless orgasmic pleasure. A sexual crusader if you will, on a journey to give the experience of a lifetime to the few unknowing women whom fall to his baby face and shy demeanor.
Symphony carries himself as a, passive and shy gentlemen. Giving women a false sense of security in the bedroom, of you know the conversation ladies "Don’t hurt-em girl".
Currently residing in Atlanta, GA, Symphony writes his own experiences coupled with fantasies of his just nasty mind. In the first installment of Office Fantasies "Cover Blown" Symphony’s stories will take you on a journey of sexual chemistry at its very best.
“ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH YOUR OFFICE FANTASY”